why the foreplay is importance in sex

Why the foreplay importance in sex

1.Asking for sex is not foreplay nor is it sexy. It is a turn off and makes the experience into a duty or a chore. Don't ask, just initiate the experience. 2.Immediately stripping your own clothes off and climbing in to bed is not foreplay nor does it build desire or anticipation in most women. This can be rectified by doing it strip tease style and being in very good physical condition. If your mate is very visual then just ripping your own clothes off may be welcome and exciting. Figure out what your partner likes. 3.Going straight for the girly bits is not foreplay. Start with the neck instead. 4.A massage could be considered PRE-foreplay. I think that you have to be careful with this one. It works well for some. For me, it makes me sleepy and not the least bit turned on. If you are going to massage make sure you follow up with some exciting foreplay to build desire. If you are using massage or gentle touch as foreplay and your spouse is a "dead fish" then that is a clue that massage is NOT foreplay for her. 5.Laughter is actually a GOOD thing. I think often times we try to create a lovemaking experience and so we try to go all soft and sweet and tender. Laughter can be a great prelude to passion. 6.Pounce! I can't be the only one who enjoys being pounced on and gently mauled/nibbled/kissed on the neck and ears. 7.Toss her around on the bed. Roll her around, bounce the bed, get things moving. 8.Sandwich her between you and the wall. So, so sexy. Lots of things you can do with this. 9.If she is reading or on the computer in bed try this line, "You have 2 seconds to put that away so it won't get damaged when I ravage you." Say it with a ****y smile and confidence. Fun and hot. Start towards her so she knows you are serious...If she tests you do not be afraid to toss the book aside or move the computer for her. Then, you better ravage her!