Sunday 9 December 2012

Doggy position.

Doggy style The name of the position refers to the position assumed by dogs when mating (although dogs, actually spend most of their copulation with the partners standing tail to tail, facing in opposite directions; see canine copulation). In the doggy position, the receiving partner crouches on all fours with the legs slightly spread, while the penetrating partner penetrates the receiver vaginally or anally from behind, either using the penis or a strap-on dildo.
What is Doggy The man enters the woman from behind If you have seen any video with two animals getting down, then you have an idea of what doggy style looks like. Doggy style allows for much deeper penetration then you get in Missionary position. This is because the vagina is in a different alignment than normal. Because of this increased stimulation, many guys have reported having a harder time holding off an orgasm. Doggy style is by far one of the most common sexual positions and should be a part of any couple's sexual toolbox. How do you do Doggy position? Doggy style is done by the woman getting on her hands and knees while the man enters her from behind. Typically he is on his knees while doing this. What does he do in Doggy style? The male starts out in a position directly behind the woman, usually on his knees, although it is possible that he can be standing up if she is on the bed. The male should find the vaginal opening and position his penis on the outside. Depending on how wet she is, the man should be able to determine how slow or fast he will enter her. Typical hand position is to hold on to her hips. This allows the male to pull her into as he thrusts which makes for a more enjoyable sexual experience. This position leaves the male's hands free for fondling breasts, or clitoral stimulation. This attention may reduce a woman's feeling of being treated as a sex object. What does she do in Doggy position? This is a position that will require a little bit of work at the beginning from the woman. The two things that she needs to work on are angle and position. Because the male's penis may not line up perfectly height-wise with her vagina she will need to either raise or lower herself to figure out how high or low she needs to be. Also she'll need to find the right angle of her hips to accomodate his penis so it doesn't fall out. If you have a smaller sized penis, it is more prone to falling out, so this may be a position that takes some practice. Small inconvenience in this? • The biggest problem with the doggy style position is that finding the right height and angle of the vagina can be difficult. With some practice and experience this usually goes away. • The male has a tendency to reach orgasm faster because he is able to penetrate so deeply. • This is not the most intimate position. Many women complain of feeling like a sexual object because of this, which detracts from their enjoyment of the act. An emotionally sensitive male may feel out of contact with her at times when having sex in this position. Recommendations • To reduce the problem of sliding apart over the course of sex, the woman can place her legs between the man's legs and then wrap her feet around his legs. This will keep the two as close as possible and keep the couple from sliding apart. • To overcome the absense of intimacy, you may want to try lying down. The woman would be on her stomach, and the man's stomach would be against her back. In past experiences it doesn't make the woman feel degraded, and it allows you to easily lean in to kiss her, kiss her ear, etc. etc. Also, try to have her rhymthymically tighten her butt/vaginal muscles as you go in and out, creating more pressure against your penis, and makes it have a slight vibration feeling.

Sunday 2 December 2012

Female Superior Position

Female Superior Position 


             These are the best kind of woman empowerment. All you need now is a saddle. Saddle up there cowgirl, it's time to ride your man like the wild steed that he is. After all, why should the man be forced to do all the work while the woman just gets to just lie there? The female superior position is one of the staple positions in any couple's sexual repertoire. Many women prefer this position because it allows them to control how everything goes. Let's be honest, a man is going to orgasm no matter what is going on, for a woman to however it sometimes take a little bit extra work. This is perfect for that because she can make sure her clit gets stimulated, that the pace is right, etc.
This is also a good position for domination. By allowing the woman to be in such a position of power, she can dominate the man, whether he is tied up or just being overpowered. Another good way to use this position is just to mix things up when having sex missionary style . On a decent sized bed it is fairly easy just to roll over 180 degrees without even having to pull out. How do you do it? The woman on top position is done just the way it sounds like it is done, with the woman on top. The woman climbs on top of the male, inserts him into her and moves her hips in a variety of ways. While this is happening, if the couple can get the timing down then the male can thrust at the same time, which can lead to very deep and vigorous penetration.
There are two basic versions of the woman on top position. Either lying down like you would find in the missionary position or in the straddling position. While lying down provides for more of a face to face sexual experience, straddling allows for much deeper penetration and a much rougher session. Because the male is not in control of the thrusting and has no easy way to stop it, under no circumstances should this position be attempted while using the pull out method of birth control.
If you do this, you will become parents very quickly. What does he do? The main job of the male in this position is to just lie there. He should try to thrust with her in order to cause more stimulation, but this is not necessary and often times inadvisable for inexperienced couples. If the timing is not right, it will just result in him popping out a lot. The male should use his hands to grope the woman's breasts or play with her clit to further improve her experience. What does she do? Allows for an intimate experience.
The woman gets the bulk of the work in this position. In addition to having to get the angle of the hips right, she also needs to do the inserting and removing. There are two basic ways to do this.
1. The woman moves her hips. This is best done in about the same fashion as when the male thrusts in to her. By doing this she'll change the orientation of the vagina which will cause the male to slide in and out. This causes a lot of friction so it will feel a lot better for both partners, although it will probably leave the woman a little sore afterwards.
2. The woman sits up and lifts herself on and off her partner. The result is that she physically lifts herself off the penis and then sits back down on it. This way is more difficult as the woman will often rise too high and the penis will fall out. The advantage is that she is not as likely to be sore afterwards. The drawback is that if she isn't very well trained, her thigh muscles are. Caution should be taken for her not to sit back too hard on the penis when it does fall out, as getting it the wrong way could result in injury to a spongy body.http://adultsonlyfollow.blogspot.in

Tuesday 27 November 2012

How to Reach climax (orgasm) ?

Vaginal intercourse make feel extraordinary physical closeness, the emotional intimacy, and for many, the belief that intercourse epitomizes sex. But for women's orgasms, the old in-out is also problematic. The best evidence suggests that only 25 percent of women are consistently orgasmic during intercourse no matter how vigorous or prolonged it is, no matter how loving the relationship, no matter what position the lovers use, and no matter what the size of the man's penis.
The reason? During intercourse (missionary, doggy, woman-on-top, whatever), the penis does not directly stimulate the clitoris, the organ responsible for women's orgasms. Sexuality experts reassure couples that the woman's inability to experience orgasm during intercourse is (1) very common, (2) no reflection on her sexual responsiveness, (3) no reflection on the man's sexual technique, (4) no reflection the woman's feelings about the relationship. Sexuality authorities also encourage couples to let go of the idea that women "should" have orgasms during intercourse. They encourage men to help women to orgasm using their fingers, hand, tongue, or a vibrator or other sex toys. But many couple wish the woman could come during intercourse. The good news is that there are easy, loving ways to boost women's chance of orgasm during intercourse. The easiest ways involve the woman-on-top and rear entry (doggie) positions. Orgasm is more challenging in the man-on-top (missionary) position, but a minor adjustment makes it considerably more likely. Woman-on-Top. The woman kneels over the man's hips. The man makes a fist and places it at the junction of the lovers' pelvises. The woman leans forward, presses her clitoris against the fist and moves in any way that erotically excites her. Or the woman or man presses a vibrator into her clitoris. Rear entry. The woman stands and bends at the waist or kneels on all fours and the man stands or kneels behind her. The man or woman can reach the woman's clitoris and gently caress it, or either the man or woman can press a vibrator against her clitoris. Man-on-Top. In this position, the woman's orgasm is least likely, but the "coital alignment technique" (CAT) helps. The CAT was first suggested in 1988 by sex researcher Edward Eichel. Instead of the man lying on top of the woman chest-to-chest with his penis moving more or less horizontally, the man shifts so that his chest is closer to one of the woman's shoulders. As a result, his penis moves in a more up-and-down direction. The man rides higher on the woman's pelvis, and the bone at the base of his penis (pelvic bone) makes more contact with the clitoris. This increases direct clitoral stimulation and may provide enough to trigger the woman's orgasm. Back in the late ‘80s, the CAT made headlines, but it proved to be just a blip on America's sexual radar. By the 1990's, it was largely forgotten. But quietly, research has continued, and most results affirm the CAT's benefit. In one study, researchers worked with 36 women who could not have orgasms in the missionary position. Half the women were encouraged to masturbate to become more comfortable with their genitals and their sexual responsiveness, a standard approach in sex therapy. The others were taught the CAT. Based on diaries kept during the 21-day period after this training, the masturbation group reported a 27 percent increase in orgasms during missionary-position intercourse, while the CAT group reported twice the increase, 56 percent. Now, many women say their best orgasms happen courtesy of the man's tongue or hand or a vibrator. But for women desiring orgasms during intercourse, these simple variations just might allow a woman to enjoy a new erotic pleasure. Happy experimentation. Please comment on your results.

Monday 26 November 2012

Have Sex in the Butterfly Position

Have Sex in the Butterfly Position Are you interest for ultimate sexual position?.Look no further. This is the silver bullet, the one that is damn near guaranteed to get the woman off every time. Why is this position so good? It is all a matter of angles. Because of the angle of the male's penis and the woman's body, the male is able to stimulate the woman's g-spot very well with his penis during sex. It does not take too much of this stimulation to get the woman leaving finger nail marks down the males arms. Why is it called the butterfly position? Who knows, your body probably looks like a butterfly in some weird convoluted fashion. All that matters is that it works and it is probably something you've never tried before.
How do you do it This is not exactly the easiest position in the world to perform. It is not the most difficult that there is, but it is definitely up there. The position is done by having the woman lie on her back. Her hips and back are then elevated by the males arms as he lifts her vagina so that it lines up with his penis. It is good to have about a foot distance between the male's penis and the platform the woman is lying on. This can be found on a bed for example. The male stands off the bed while he lifts the woman lying on it up to his height. When the woman is at the right height, just her upper back and head should be resting on the bed still. The male then slides into her and thrusts. Because of the angles involved, it is unlikely that the male will manage to get very deep at all. This is a good thing, the result is that his thrusting power is aimed directly at the G-Spot. What does he do? It is the male's job to do most of the work in this position. Begin by lifting your partner off the bed or whatever surface is being used. Grab her by the hips or under her buttocks in order to do this better. Position her vagina so that it is about the same height as your penis. Place the penis at the outside of the vagina and then slowly begin thrusting forward. This will cause the penis to push against the top wall of the vagina, thus stimulating the G-Spot. The male may also wish to vary his thrusting pattern and depth in this position. The man may want to start by doing 3-4 shallow thrusts followed by one deep full thrust and work his way towards many deep thrusts followed by 1-2 shallow ones. What does she do? There isn't much for the woman to actually do while in this position. The main thing she should do is to pay attention to where her legs and feet are. A very common place for them while in this position is on top of the male's shoulders or just coming off the male's mid-section. Try to support your own body in whatever way possible in order to take some of the stress off your partner.

Saturday 17 November 2012

Have Sex Standing up Position

Have Sex Standing Up Vaginal 1. The man and woman stand and the woman bends over in front of the man. This is very similar to doggy style and is by far the easiest way to have sex standing up if both the man and woman are about the same height.
2. If the woman is shorter than the man or the couple wants to make it a bit more challenging, then the man should stand while the woman wraps her legs around him. This is a more difficult because the man has to hold the woman's weight and has nothing to push against. 3. The woman straddles the man but in this case the man pushes the woman against the wall. This helps him support her weight and also gives him something to push against. 4. If the two are of similar heights or the woman is taller, then when standing face to face, the man can simply enter with both people standing normally. This can also be accomplished with shorter women by having them wear high heels and/or platform shoes during intercourse

Friday 16 November 2012

how to do sex with menopause women

How to go sex with menopause women?: Couples going through menopause often have unique struggles when coping with the new changes and challenges it brings to them both as individuals, and as partners. It is an inner battle – mentally and physically – for not just women, but men as well. For women, it may be hard to get a male partner to understand and be able to empathize with her challenges. But both sexes go through a form of menopause, and this transition is disruptive and even scary, and a certain level of understanding and communication is required for any one to have a quality relationship at this stage of life. Nancy Cetel talks about many of the changes couples experience in her book Double Menopause, and what often happens is that emotions, including past hurts, hopes, dreams, etc., that may have been buried or unexpressed in the past, can no longer hidden. It can’t be helped – the truth will not be held back any longer. For some women, that shows up in pent up aggression that is taken out on a male partner by pushing him away and/or making him unable to relate to you on a physical level. Men need to know that the loss of desire for sex may be caused from the hormonal changes, but there might also be an emotional element that needs to be dealt with. It is advisable that men in menopause couples acquaint themselves with the effects of menopause, in themselves and their partners, in order to better understand the changes their relationship is going through. Men soon realize that hormonal imbalances are causing unwanted emotional symptoms in women that could lead to verbal spats every now and then. Men need to be aware that emotional changes are likely to occur and that they are not to blame for them but that their partner may require extra attention, love and outward expressions of caring more now than ever before. Men need to understand that their sexual drives could also have changed as they experience a slower loss of testosterone. To keep sexual interest, partners may need to put more time and attention into the quality of their sex lives and ‘update’ themselves on what things turn them on at this stag of the game. Men need to know that a decrease in estrogen in their lover’s bodies – can significantly alter how she thinks and feels about sex. In addition, vaginal discomfort and thinning of the lining of the vagina can make sex painful so it will not be enjoyable for either of them until they find a solution for this. More than ever this is a critical time for couples to communicate more about the changes they are both experiencing. Christian Northrup talks about ‘reversing roles’ as couples go through this transition in her book the Wisdom of Menopause. Men often lose a lot of the aggression that once fueled their younger years and they are happier to stay home and engage in more nurturing activities, that they never paid attention to before, such as cooking. Women, on the other hand, may want to venture out into the world and pursue a long-thought about career. They become more aggressive and passionate about accomplishing things. In this way, the couple almost switch roles in the relationship. Talking a lot, expressing ideas, and bonding with one another again becomes critical during this transition. Men need to know what is happening to their women on a day-to-day basis, and visa versa. Women want men to cheer them on as they undergo significant changes including dealing with physical discomfort, hormonal imbalances, and possibly venturing out into the career world for the first time! Men need to know that sex isn’t going away totally. Explore sexual alternatives and realize that having less sex is not the end of the world! Experiment with vibrators, and oral sex, if you haven’t already as these are fine alternatives and to maintain a healthy sex life. Women love toys as much as guys do. Menopause might mean taking more time for foreplay for some women. Get into a habit of communicating your needs to each other and learn to enjoy the changes instead of fighting against them. The most important thing is that husbands provide a social network for their menopausal wives to rely on. Realize that menopause is only a phase, albeit the end of the old and the beginning of a new one, and it’s possible to adjust to the changes by remaining aware. By staying informed of each other’s thoughts and feelings and becoming tolerant and understanding to the emotional pains women can go through, menopause couples can overcome most difficulties.

Tuesday 13 November 2012

How to penetrate penis into vagina

Step 1 If I know anything about vaginas, it’s that they are attached to women. This means in order to get to a vagina, you’ve got to get to a woman first. I’ve heard finding a woman is tough. I think finding them is the easy part, it’s getting them to take their pants off that’s tricky. You have to hit the hot spots: women’s clothing stores, maternity wards, and women's bathrooms. I prefer women’s bathrooms because half of the time they’re pants are down already. Step 2 This has got to be the most difficult step. You actually have to pay attention to the hole on the other side of the body. This hole could be as good as the vagina, except it talks. The day the vagina starts talking is a dark day indeed. So let’s get back to that face hole. When approaching a woman, use a compliment sandwich. “Hi. You have nice hair, I want to penetrate your vagina, and your shoes are cool.” Step 3 By this time her pants should be around her ankles. Make sure you’re still not in the bathroom. You may think it’s a good idea, but you’ll end up in a bad pop song. To avoid this, carry her to the nearest bed. The only exception to this rule is your parent’s bed. The only exception to THAT rule is if they happen to be feeling frisky. From there, you’re on your own, tiger. Step 4 Let’s recap. You have your woman laid out on a bed, pants around the ankles, and you’re about to part the red sea. The best way to get her to spread is to say “spread your legs.” They usually will. If that doesn’t work, wing it. I’ve heard saying “please” and “I make a lot of money” has worked for others. Step 5 Once you’ve got her legs spread, begin to reach for her undergarments, but suddenly pull out a rose. You should always carry a rose with you, that way you can be “spontaneously” romantic. The woman will be so taken in by your sudden splash of romance, that she will yell “please take off my underwear!” You’re all clear to remove the penis shield, cowboy. Step 6 At this point you should be staring at your vagina head on. You may want to take your penis and insert it now, but you must prepare yourself before any of that. First off, make sure your penis is erect. To test this, look at a photo of a flaccid penis and compare the two. If yours has significantly more veins showing, you’re golden. If not, you may want to reconsider your sexuality. You cannot penetrate a vagina with a limp penis, I’ve tried and it’s nearly impossible. Take out your condom now and remove it from its package. If you have forgotten your condom, be aware that you may transform into an antropomorphic pig. Put the condom on so that it’s covering the entire penis. Simply placing it on top of your penis will not do, sorry. The condom will provide you protection from the rough jagged inner walls of the vagina. Step 7 Do not, I repeat, DO NOT try warming up the vagina by shoving a hair curler up it. The woman may not like that and shut off access to her vagina, and then it’s back to step one. The proper way to warm up a vagina is metaphorically. This means preparing her for the actual penetration by stretching it. Use a giant vibrator to wear her out so she won’t even feel how small your penis is. I’ll trust you have a giant vibrator with you. Step 8 This is what you have been waiting for, isn’t it? She’s on a bed, pants off, legs spread, underwear gone, condom on, parents possibly involved, this is it. Take your penis, and line it right up with her vagina. Don’t aim too low or you’ll have a whole new set of problems to deal with. Once you’re lined up, move forward until it is completely inside. Congratulations! You have penetrated the vagina! Step 9 Quickly pull out your penis and run in the opposite direction as fast as you can. If there is a wall, improvise. Run all the way home and give your wife a high five!